What leads me to voicing such a strong opinion about who socializes with whom? Because most people no longer trust their~self, or life-in-general, to even have eye-contact with anyone outside their comfort-zone. Do you think they believe they'll be "found-out"?
Do you feel this is form of ego-isolation in order not to upset, in any form, our own-life-experience?
Handling our-own-stuff allows us to be social with anyone we encounter; therefore, it feels pretty reasonable to say folks here (at least in the USA) have, in general, evolved into fat-lemmings being lead to the cliff's-edge (while we hold on tight to whatever control we feel they own). Get it ~
It's easier to continue life in the illusion-of-our-being (with preconceived notions) than it is to connect with anything we intellectualize is going against-our-grain (what feels right to who we think we are). It's quite simple to spot a fraud who cannot see within themselves.
Communication with each other has not taught us to share what makes us feel vulnerable (in a myriad of ways). And we're feeling our government isn't for the well-being of the majority, so we're kinda stuck between an emotional rock&hard-place right now.
That is an illusion we can deal with, because we only have ultimate control over what's inside our~self. If you're hiding behind some intellectual analysis of life, the point of S.M.I.L.E. will miss you completely until you're ready.
It's one thing to intellectualize, "Those that mind, don't matter; and those that matter; don't mind.", yet it's entirely different to embrace thoroughly, with your emotions, so you don't need to hide behind a rigid comfort-zone.
And humans are SO afraid to accept unconditional-goodness, because they attach their own judgments as to what motivates this kindness. Oh well; and I hope a new awareness will shine in their hearts to ease the challenge of any life-experience.
And some folks would rather keep their~self safe, by just sticking a pacifier in someone else's mouth, which only reveals how sadly they've miss something.
Certainly I am not advocating people that won't do for themselves should be welcomed into just anyone's field-of-influence. This is a wise-way to manage a life-experience. Decide with facts-from-today; and not your mental-preconceived-notions.
And yes it may mean honest-communication, but that's an emotional-art humans are fearful to explore at this stage of the game in life. Because our mama's are a product of what they knew, and so on. So let's continue to teach our children the brain is the most important aspect of being human ~ evidence certainly points to the fact that's working. Yea right!
Most believe brains equal status, status equals appearance, appearance equals who we are, and who we are in public is far more important than who we are behind our closed doors. Frauds, ego, intellect, disharmony, crap . .
If I confused you, if you have any question, suggestions, or advise, please write to us. We do not bit off heads, we do not belittle; we will do our best to straighten out misconceptions. Thanks ~
Always ~ LL
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